Question for you: does anyone ever check on you, or are you the one who usually checks on other people? Does anyone ever call you? Does anyone ever send you a message? Does anyone ever come to visit you or to see you on a consistent basis, to see whether you're actually doing fine? Or are you the one who usually does the reaching out?
There are many reasons why sometimes people don't reach out to us. And I totally get it, because 99% of people that used to know me would probably say the same thing about me. I also am guilty of not checking in on others. And I know this checking in on others, it's not because people don't love us, or because I don't love the people that I don't check in on. Forgive me, guys. But it's sometimes because someone might be thinking that you're strong, you're reliable, you're self-sufficient, you got it together, and you don't have problems or whatever. And even if they know you have problems, they might be thinking that you're able to overcome them by yourself. Well, maybe you kind of have that aura where people are afraid to approach you or whatever, because you are the one who has it together. You are the one who people usually run to when there's problems. So it's kind of hard for them to check on you, because you're the shoulder that everyone leans on.
And then again, sometimes it's because of that whole thing of out of sight, out of mind. A lot of us have been in isolation. So sometimes people don't think about you unless spirit prompts them, or unless you usually come into someone's awareness or experience on a regular basis. Most of the time, people tend to forget. People out of sight, out of mind, unless there's really something. But usually, love is there, but the person is not physically present. So for some reason, we don't check in on others, and others don't check in on us.
And then there's this other thing: sometimes people don't check in on us, or I don't check in on other people, because people kind of want to keep their things private. Sometimes someone is going through something and they don't want anyone to interfere or to know about that thing, because that thing is supposedly secret, and that thing is a burden that they feel they should manage by themselves. They don't want anyone involved in those things. They don't even want anyone to know a peep about what is going on with them. Certainly, it has happened to me, and I've also been in situations where I did not want anyone in my business, and because of that, I kept to myself and went underground. And that is why people sensed that they should not check in on me. Or I totally decided to ignore other people's calls, and even when people were reaching out to me, I did not want anyone interfering in my process. So those are some reasons why sometimes people don't check in on you, or why I don't check in on others.
Anyway, I am just so grateful, because I have online friends that I keep checking in on on a regular basis, and I'm happy because I'm in touch with them and they are also in touch with me on a regular basis. That really keeps my spirits uplifted, and I'm sure I also uplift their spirits every time we are able to communicate.
So anyway, the reason I'm talking about this subject of checking in on others is because I noticed that in the last six years, since I've been living where I live, there's been only one person that has been checking in on me. It's not to say that there are no people who show up in my experience every once in a while, but this specific person started checking in on me on a regular basis, and that's the reason why I kind of noticed: oh my gosh, this is really interesting. This person is checking on me like every week, sending me messages, asking me if I want to do something with her, maybe do I want to go out and have coffee? Do I want to go out to the stores and whatnot? Do I want company? Do I want her to come over and visit? Things like that. And I was thinking to myself, well, this is interesting, because this is like a younger person. She's like 20 years younger than me, but she's been consistently checking in on me, sending me happy messages. And listen, this is not like someone who is into spirituality. We don't talk about anything spiritual or anything. She's really tapped into the 3D, but I really enjoy having a good time with this person, because I'm really up to date with what's happening in life. Like, what are the young people doing these days? She tells me all about her life and all her amazing experiences, and I'm in shock, because literally I was... I don't know which planet I've been living on, but I do not know what's happening in this world in terms of what's happening out there socially. How are people dating? What are people doing? What are the young people doing? I have no clue. But she clues me in. So I'm kind of tapped in to what's really happening in the world because of this friend of mine who has been checking in on me on a consistent basis.
And I'm talking about this because it's a sustained, consistent effort that has made me stop and notice that someone is actually checking in on me, which most people don't do, and I also don't do it for others, unless you are a special friend. Many of my friends have totally disappeared, and I'm just in the process of now trying to widen my social circles, because of how isolated I have been in my life.
So I'm trying to widen these circles, and it's still so hard. I have a few friends here and there, but it is difficult to get there. But hopefully, hopefully I'm seeing something on the horizon for me. Hopefully I'm gonna have at least one good physical friend, or two or three or whatever, or five. Let's see how it's gonna go.
So do you check in on others, and why not? I mean, we really should check in on others. I think it's really uplifting. It's such a blessing. It's just a simple way to reach out and show or spread your love. Sometimes you can't talk out there about all these things that you're talking about here on these channels, but you can just send someone a message. You can reach out to someone. You can call someone and radiate your love in that way. It doesn't even have to be anything spiritual. It just has to be: oh my gosh, I care for you. I'm just checking in on you. It just has to be a heartfelt, organic, authentic thing. Just check in on someone. You never know, you might be that person who's gonna turn something around in someone's life. You never know what people are going through. So sometimes it's just good to check in on someone.
And you know what? I just want to thank all my online friends, all my digital friends. You know yourselves. I love you so much. I know there's so many people from different countries who communicate with me, who reach out to me. We've been friends. They feel so close to my heart. They are so close to my heart. And I know that I'm close to their heart, just because of the love and friendship that we've had. Even the people here on YouTube who comment on my videos, I thank you so much. I love you. And let's keep taking care of each other, because we are here for each other. We met for a reason, and I'm so happy about that. I love you guys. See you next time. Bye.