So today I just want to talk about something that has been on my mind, and I want to ask you a question. Is any of you still trying to save someone that you love? Or intervene in someone else's life with your wisdom, or higher knowledge about things that you think can help them? Are you still doing this higher work on behalf of others, and how is it working for you? That's the question that I want to know about, because the way I'm seeing it, it's becoming very clear, or rather, it has been very, very clear, that everyone is on their own journey.
Everyone has their own personal path, and everyone has chosen their own life experiences. And they're going to go through whatever it takes, no matter how bad and how terrible that thing is. And it really doesn't matter, many times, what you yourself do or say to try to intervene on behalf of someone else. Even though it's really good to do what you've got to do to support them, until that person decides on their own to take that wisdom, or accept that service that you yourself are offering in love to help them evolve in their own time and in their own way, people are still going to go through those cycles over and over again. In and out, all the time, all day, 24/7, every year. It's gonna be the same, same thing, until that person that you love, or that person you're trying to support with your energy, has decided for themselves that enough is enough.
This thing has been so heavy on my heart, because I have witnessed some people that I love so much, some friends that I love so much, going through such traumatic experiences. Man, I cannot even tell you. I love these people so much, and I've tried to offer my support. And I have offered my support. And many times I've even thought that maybe they were understanding what time it was, in terms of the energy, and what they needed to do. But when push came to shove, man, these people took those same decisions and actions that had previously put them in such terrible situations, and they went down that road again. And it is just so heartbreaking, especially because sometimes you just know that something can be done. But people are on their own journey, and until they experience those things that they have chosen by their soul to experience, nothing is going to change. And that's just the unfortunate thing, and it pains me. It pains me dearly to see these types of things happening.
So this is why I'm asking: what can we do? The thing that we can do, from my own personal observation, especially these days, when things are just going in another direction, I'm telling you, crystal lovers, awakened beings: we have to stand in our power and in our own truth, to "save ourselves." And I'm not using that word "save" without thought, because I know a lot of people are kind of averse to that terminology based on their Christian beliefs or whatever it is. But I'm using that word because that word came so strong in my spirit one day when I was really going through some dark phases. And it was like, "Caroline: nobody is coming to save you. Save yourself. Save yourself." And by "save yourself," it really basically meant, man, it was up to me, and there was no one who was coming.
So I believe that other people as well have to save themselves. Everyone has to save themselves. Everyone has to do their own work. Other people will come along to support you in the path, by offering nuggets of wisdom to help you remember something, so that you can catch on to something to help you do your own work. But people are not going to do it for you, no matter how you love someone. People have chosen these things and made these decisions way before then, unless at some point they renegotiated these contracts in this lifetime to change that particular experience, or because of whatever reason they bumped into some wisdom that really made them take a different path.
So no matter how painful it is, we gotta save ourselves. We can just put out the light. Stand in our own light, because this is what it's calling for. Our own presence has to speak for us right now. Our own power has to speak for us right now. If we've been relying on total BS to really amp ourselves up as spiritual beings, unfortunately things are just not gonna be what they need to be. When things just come right in front of you, who you are as a being will support you so much in evolving and growing beyond the phase that you're in. And even your own strength can bring light to other people, as they see you triumphing over your own situation, based on your own true spiritual beliefs. And most of these things are not about what other people have said or what they're saying. It's about experience. It's about truth. It's about authenticity, and it can be seen.
This is what I have noticed. What do you guys think? We can rely on each other as a team when everyone is doing their work. And of course our energies can carry other people with us as well, when everyone is doing their part, or willing to do their part in truth. Then the energy can flow. Otherwise it's so unfortunate, but things happen, and things happen for a reason.
There's a time I also had to make my own decision, after experiencing so much pain for so long, that I was never, ever, ever going to go down a certain path. And I remember when I made that decision, I felt that energy of truth. When I said it was over for me, it was over for me, and I meant it. And I'm telling you, my life shifted from that point forward.
So I feel terrible when I see people unable to make these decisions, for whatever reason. I don't blame them, and I'm not judging them, because even I fall into traps every now and then. Even I fall into situations, because there are certain things there that I need to look at. So I fall into those situations. So I'm not exempt by any means. But it's still so painful to observe this whole cyclical thing of going through something over and over again. Some people are going through, oh my gosh, it's unbelievable what's happening at this moment.
If anyone is not awake to the things that are happening right now, then we all got to be careful. Because we got to look again, because a lot of things are happening. And truly, truly, truly, we gotta stand in our power. This is the time. This is the time. These times are the times for testing. Otherwise the decisions you make are gonna impact you, gonna impact the next person. Impact your family, impact your kids. So I believe that we need to stand in truth. Save yourself. Remember, I'm using that word "save": help yourself, support yourself, grow, evolve, transcend. So that no matter what happens, you've made that choice on some level, wherever it is that you're going to go, at least you'll have overcome something in this lifetime.
Save yourselves, people. Help yourselves. Everyone has this individual responsibility. It cannot be on the shoulders of others. Other people come as a group to help each other out. But it's up to you to decide that you want it. It's up to each and every person to decide that they want it. And it's there, and it's available. And we are all loved and supported.
So tell me: do you have family members or friends who don't want to hear anything, or nothing, and their lives are imploding? Let me know in the comment section how you're dealing with it. And until next time, I love you guys. And as always, keep it in the heart. Stay in the heart, and stay in your truth. Okay. Bye.