Does your neck feel heavy when you wear crystal jewelry around your neck? Or are you one of those crystal lovers who cannot stand to wear crystal jewelry or crystal necklaces, because of just how heavy your neck feels when you have these beauties around your neck? This subject of crystals really weighing us down, especially when we have them around our necks, has been brought up by quite a few people.
So I want to talk about this, because it might be a blessing to someone else who loves crystal jewelry but can't wear it, just because of how it feels, or how your neck feels like it's going to break, or how sweaty you get with the weight of the crystals around your neck. In this video, I'm going to share a few reasons why I believe this sometimes happens, and what I personally did to get rid of that neck pain, because I just couldn't imagine not being able to wear these beautiful crystals. Okay. Crystal lovers, crystals are the best teachers ever. Every time something is happening to you, every time you're working with crystals, pay attention, because there's a message, there's a lesson, there's something you need to notice about what is happening to you as a result of interacting with the energy of these beautiful crystals.
If you are working with crystals or wearing crystal jewelry and your neck is heavy, what is that weight around your neck that the crystal is drawing your attention to? What is that heavy weight? Think about it. This is how crystals help us heal. The weight around your neck, the weight around your throat chakra.
Remember that crystals you place around your neck are directly connected to your throat chakra. And we know that this area here, the throat chakra, is the chakra that controls things like communication, your ability to communicate. What is that heaviness that's preventing you from communicating? Is there something you need to pay attention to, something weighing heavily around your neck, around your creativity, that you need to pay attention to? What is that weight? The weight around your neck means something.
The throat chakra controls things like self-expression. You're feeling heavy around your neck because you're wearing a specific kind of crystal jewelry, and you want to express yourself, and there's this heaviness that comes upon you. What does that tell you about your ability to express yourself? This is one way you work with crystals for transformation: you notice the subtle energies. You pay attention to why you are actually doing something, or using something, or working with something for your betterment. It's so cool.
So I'm excited to share my experience about this. I'm sure you'll get a few tidbits of information that will be useful for you, so you can really enjoy your crystal jewelry. Anyway, let me tell you this, and this might be interesting for those who don't know much about my history and why I even started sharing on this channel. There's a lot of information in my old videos; you're going to find out a lot about me. And this person I am today is totally not the person who started out on this channel several years ago. It's been a process of growth and transformation on this channel, just a beautiful process. But in the beginning, I was such a wreck. I was really going through hell on earth in terms of my emotions, my mind, my physical life, and my life experiences. I was just reeling and out of control. I did not even know what to do, and I was looking for anything that was going to help me get myself together, anything that would take away the pain. I tell you, I was in such a hole that I just didn't care what it was. Crystals, bring them, whatever, bring them. Whatever ideology, anything that promised any kind of healing at that point, I was just ready for it.
I was so down and out, man. It was a terrible, terrible time in my life. I just reached that dark-night-of-the-soul type of experience. I was feeling it. And during that time, when I was going through that stuff, I only had malachite necklaces. And those malachite necklaces were given to me by my dad. My dad didn't even know anything about necklaces, he just kind of had them somewhere, and then he gave them to me. And because I had just started getting excited about crystals, I was like, okay, these crystals, I'm hearing that they have some therapeutic healing purposes, and that they can help me heal. So bring out the malachites and wear them. So I brought out those necklaces, because I thought maybe this was the solution at that particular time.
And interestingly, they turned out to be the best healing tools I ever worked with. And I know that my healing journey would never have actively started if I was not using crystals, or if crystals did not come directly into my life in that powerful way. And also because I was willing to heal. I wanted to change. I wanted to transform. I was open. I was receptive, and I was willing to do the work.
So the crystals come into my life. The malachites come into my life. And I tell you, when I started wearing those malachites, my neck, oh my gosh, my neck was so heavy. My head became dull. My neck became so heavy. I was sweating. I couldn't even wear these malachites, these beautiful malachites that were supposed to heal me. I couldn't wear them because of the pain. I was just like, oh my God, what is happening? Is it me? Is it the crystals? I was imagining all kinds of things.
And it's so interesting, because there are a lot of things that happen when people experience pain or discomfort, especially when they're working with crystals. Sometimes you feel the heaviness or discomfort, and then what do you do? You decide, "I'm not going to use this crystal anymore," and you take it off and put it aside. And that's it. You might just toss the crystal aside without really inquiring about what's happening. Or sometimes, when you feel discomfort, you might just decide, "This is just not for me. This is not my type of crystal. I'm not into this malachite. I'm not into sodalite. I'm not into rose quartz. I'm not into amethyst." You believe the crystal is not the thing for you, or it's not working for you, or you're not called to it, whatever kind of reasoning we have around that. And then you put the crystal aside.
And then sometimes you know that the crystal is really giving you a message, but you're just like, "You know what? I can't deal with this. I'm not going to handle it." Or you feel that maybe the message is not for you, or whatever. Then you put the crystal aside. And then there are also some people who, when they experience some kind of discomfort with crystals, will be like, "This crystal is toxic. It has some weird vibes. There's something wrong with this crystal. It's evil," or whatever. Some people think like that. And they're like, "Okay, I'm throwing that to the side because I don't want to deal with that."
And then there are other people also who, when they experience some kind of discomfort while working with crystals, just work with the crystal in small doses. They'll work with it for two hours, or one hour, or just for the afternoon, or for the evening, or for one day, and then they're done. And I don't blame them, because that pain, man, it can be really, really intense. And all this is fine. Everyone just needs to kind of get into the groove of things.
But for me personally, I believe that there's nothing that comes into my life by accident, including crystals. And even when I have an initial negative reaction to a particular crystal, I always keep it in my consciousness that this crystal has come into my awareness for a specific reason. And my initial reaction may just be something of an introduction to why that crystal is in my life. So if I react negatively, or I get angry, or I get anxious, I know at the back of my head that that's one of the ways the crystal is introducing itself to me, and revealing the purpose for which it is coming into my life. That anger that I feel, what is it about? That anxiety that I feel, what is it about? That fear that I feel, what is it about? So even if in the moment my initial reaction to a crystal is negative, or I don't connect to that crystal, I know that at some point down the road, the crystal has already introduced itself to me, and I already know there's an issue there that I need to be working on. And even if I don't know what it is, I know it's going to become clear as days go by. Crystals are just so beautiful.
So when you are having heaviness around your neck, when you're wearing these beautiful crystals, if you are one of those people, what is that weight around your neck that needs to be released? Think about it. What is that weight? If you're wearing, for example, something like sodalite, sodalite, by virtue of its color, is a throat chakra stone. It's also an intuitive stone for the third eye, but it doesn't matter. What is that sodalite telling you about what needs to be released? If you're working with rose quartz, and you're wearing a necklace of rose quartz around your neck, do you know that rose quartz is a crystal that really resonates with the heart chakra? It's about love. It's about love of self and others. It's about compassion. It's about empathy. It's about grief that's held in your heart, or in your life, that needs to be released. It's about giving and receiving. How much are you giving, and how much are you receiving? And is that what is weighing you down?
So when you understand the quality of the stone, and you understand the message that the weight around your neck is bringing to you, then you can really, really use that to heal your life situation. This is how you work with crystals. It's just so beautiful. So when you feel that heaviness, remember that it's a call for inner work. It's for you to look deeply into it. It's a beautiful healing message that's inviting you to look at the issues that are weighing you down, the issues that are breaking your neck.
So before you toss that crystal away or put it aside, think about this: what is that weighty issue that you need to look into? It's a beautiful message. There is pain, but that pain can be released if we listen to the message that the pain is calling forward. And it doesn't even have to get like that.
I had to do my own inner work. I had to do lots of inner work and personal work to really look deeply into my life, to get rid of a lot of dead weight from my life, starting from the physical, to the emotional, to the mental, to the spiritual. Anything that was not working, that was a weight upon my life, had to go. And I had to do a lot of inner work. I had to lose a lot of people, a lot of friends, a lot of relationships, a lot of ideas, a lot of mindsets, a lot of belief systems, things had to go. And as a result of that, I tell you, my life transformed by heaps and bounds.
So really, as an encouragement: if you are feeling the weight of life upon you, and if you are feeling the physical symptoms manifesting in your energetic body, just pay attention and release, release, release. Let go. There's always a message in everything, everything. That's what I believe. I know some people don't really get that, or don't even believe that, or have a different opinion about it, but it really is true. The signs that we see in life are always an indicator of something.
So let me know in the comment section: are you one of those people who love to wear crystals, but you just can't wear them around your neck because of the weight? Let me know what you do about it. What is your current process around things like that? I'd like to know. And if you need any help working with your spiritual tools, I offer personalized one-on-one consultations. You can hit me up at caroline@crystalstalk.com. And in the meantime, let go of the heaviness, fly light. And I love you guys.