Hi, in this video, I'm going to be talking about black tourmaline, black tourmaline. This is a very, very, very powerful stone, and I'm just going to give you a different take from what you may have heard about black tourmaline.

But I'll be talking about black tourmaline based on my own personal experiences, and how I have bonded with it, and how I have connected with it, and the message that it has given me about what it is used for.

Many people use black tourmaline to ward off negative entities or negative energies, or to transmute negative energies, or to return negative energies to sender, or to just protect themselves psychically against attacks from outside forces. But I found a different meaning.

They might be kind of similar, but not really. The reason why black tourmaline is in my life, and the purpose for which I use black tourmaline, is for anger management.

So you may wonder how this nice woman could be having anger management issues, but yeah, I do. And I have really had a lot of experiences in my life.

The first time I ever heard about black tourmaline was when someone was talking about it and saying that black tourmaline is a stone that is used against psychic attacks and things like that.

So because I was going through a lot of things in my life at that time, my life was in turmoil. My life was just, oh my gosh, an emotional roller coaster.

I felt like I was being hit by so many things coming at me from different directions. I was reeling and in some kind of negative energy. And well, in time you find out that it's you, the person, who creates your own problems.

People tend to think that other people cause their problems, but no, really it is you who creates everything that happens in your life.

So we need to check ourselves, really. It's not always about things going on the outside. It's as above, so below, as within, so without. Your outside environment and the things that are happening to you are basically really a reflection of your thoughts.

I found that out after going through a lot of lessons. But anyway, I finally got it that it was me who was creating situations in my life, and I didn't have to blame other people. I just had to look at myself.

And that's why I don't believe that black tourmaline is a stone that is used to ward against, to keep other people's energies away. Although for some people that could be the reason.

But for me, black tourmaline is for anger management, because I truly, truly believe that when you raise your vibrations, when your frequency is way up there, it takes a little bit much more effort for low entities and low vibrations to match up to you.

So the way to deal with transmuting negative energies really is for you to be more love and more light, and to try as much as possible to have your vibrations raised, because if your vibrations are raised, it's going to be the responsibility of the low vibrating things to come up to your level.

And they don't want to come up to your level, so nothing's going to touch you if you're walking in love and walking in light. So it's just a simple theory, and that's just what I believe.

I raise my vibrations, and then I'll have nothing to do with low vibrating energies.

They can deal with other people and other circumstances that are vibrating on their level, as long as I'm up there, or I'm doing my best to stay on the love frequency, on a light frequency. I don't have to bother about dark entities.

So for me, black tourmaline is a stone that I use for anger management, which is obviously a low vibration thing, but I try to get it out of my system as fast as possible. So how did I find out about this?

One day I was really, really, really, really upset because I got home and I got a bill from the dentist, which I didn't think was fair. I just think he was trying to rob me, which I think he really was.

And I was so angry. I could feel the anger just coming out of my body like in waves of energy. It was so palpable, you could touch it. I was so angry.

I wanted to kick open my door and just do something really crazy. That was how angry I was. I could feel that energy vibration, just, oh my gosh.

Well, anyway, I decided not to attack my sacred property with my negative energy.

So all I did was I opened the door as calmly as possible and grabbed onto my black tourmaline, because I was thinking I needed to get that nasty energy out of my system. I needed to calm down immediately.

And as soon as I held the stone in my hand, I suddenly became very sober. I was seeing red, but then I started seeing blue. It just sobered me up quickly, and I understood in that moment that my behavior was very irrational.

So in a way it grounded me instantly. I was grounded.

It took a while for the negative vibes to come out of my system, but I understood in that moment that I was very angry and I needed to calm down immediately, which I did. And I was seeing red, and I started seeing blue.

So this stone has actually been very, very useful to me for anger management. Every time I'm out of my mind, it kind of grounds me and discharges all the negative energies and the negative vibrations.

That is the purpose for which black tourmaline is in my life. It's a very grounding stone. It's a stone that helps to sober me up, and it's a stone that helps me deal with anger management.

And it's one of these stones that has this piezoelectric energy running through it, and you can actually feel it pumping in your hand. You can feel the vibrations when you hold the stone. I have another one here that I really love.

I mean, initially I had intended to use this against, you know, psychic attacks, but it doesn't work for me like that. It's been much more useful for me to help manage my anger, to help sober me up instantly.

Or it might take a minute for the negative vibes to be transmuted, but the understanding for me is that these stones help me to release the fear, because anger is basically just fear.

I was afraid that I was being robbed, and I was being attacked by my dentist. Now it's too funny. I can even laugh about it.

But anyway, that is the purpose for which black tourmaline is in my life, a very powerful stone, a very grounding stone.

And maybe you can leave your comments below and tell me why you use black tourmaline and how useful it has been in your life, and even if it helps you with your anger issues, I would like to know that.

Thank you so much for watching, and I'll see you next time, crystal lovers.