Question for you. Who's out there still actively trying to save anyone? Who's still trying to save someone, maybe a family member or a friend? Who's still trying to save people from themselves?
I've been talking for a long time about this thing of saving people, saving my family, and having this savior complex, imagining I would swoop in and open their eyes to the higher wisdom, because I have the answers.
Even though I've been told several times to stop it, for some reason, because of old belief systems about how we should take care of each other, and how I've been programmed, just like many of us, to take care of the people we love and help them through their processes, because that's how the old world used to work, I keep trying to knock some sense into people so they see there's an easier way.
Just because we see how people are suffering, and because I feel I've reached a stage where I've moved through my own things and evolved, and because I have information and wisdom that helped me, I've felt the need to share it with family and friends, to help everyone get through it so we can all evolve faster and be together.
Especially in health and wellness and spirituality.
No matter how many times I've been told, "Caroline, stop," somehow I've always managed to defy it. I'd be like, okay, I'm going to stop, and then I'd feel like maybe I need to say just one word. Most people around me ignore this information anyway.
I've now come to a point where I'm like, okay. I had a dream last year that shook me to the core, and it really knocked some sense into me. It put a stop to trying to convince or save the members of my family.
In that dream, my family members were in the back of a truck, and the truck was going up a hill. When it got to the top, the back of the truck tipped over, and all my family members fell into a ditch.
I fell into the ditch too, but I was not experiencing what they were experiencing. What was happening was that my family members were drowning in some kind of molasses-type mud. They were disappearing inside the ditch.
I was standing there, not inside it, and I was trying to pull some family members out. The more I tried to pull them, the deeper they went into that molasses. Most of them appeared to be dying.
The more I tried to save them, the more they looked like they were going to die. I was so afraid. I was like, oh my gosh, this person is like a little baby, I need to save this person. Oh, this person is old.
But the message was clear to me: if I continued to try to help my family members or save anyone, this is what would happen. They'd fall into the ditch, and it would be adios. That was the basic message.
Shortly after this dream, members of my family started falling sick, one after the other, in real life. Total hospitalization. My parents, my brothers. It was a nightmare of people falling sick.
There I was, after having this dream, looking at these people and thinking, oh my gosh.
Besides compassion and being there in whatever way I could, I was not allowed, I was not able, to share any other kind of information, because now it was up to them to save themselves.
It was up to them to do what they needed to do for themselves. Because they too are powerful beings. They have it within themselves to save themselves.
There's nothing I was going to do to help them out of these things, because me trying to help them was basically arrogance. It's almost a kind of pride: here I am, I am the one who can save you.
I have this information and wisdom that is good for you. Actively nullifying, trying to ignore the fact that they too are powerful beings, able to do whatever they need to do to evolve.
Sometimes it's just as simple as letting people be themselves, so they too can emerge as the powerful beings they are. That's why they're here. They're here to emerge, to remove the densities from themselves, by themselves, because they can.
They have the right to do that for themselves. Nobody has to spoon-feed them. They can get activated from the information they too have. Everybody has that wisdom. Everybody has their timing for remembering, their time to emerge.
It's like you can't force a caterpillar out of its cocoon. It has to come out by itself, through the natural process, at the right time. Otherwise, if you do anything to that cocoon, you've ruined the caterpillar.
There was a time in the past where we could do these things for people, but the energy now is completely different. This energy is allowing, even making it so much easier, for us to emerge and save ourselves.
This is the only way that respect is going to come forward: the respect for oneself, because the person knows, "I did it. I emerged.
I am here." They don't have to rely on you or depend on you or anyone else, because they are powerful beings depending on themselves and knowing they can do it.
My family members were sick for a long, long time. My father is still sick and hopefully getting better. It was hospitalization upon hospitalization from the month of May, an unending cycle of, oh my God, what's happening today? Who's sick today?
But everyone emerged, and I was so proud of myself for how I conducted myself through the whole thing.
Just being supportive, responding to their requests, doing whatever needed to be done, but without imposing myself or saying the things I probably would have said in the past.
That's one thing I'm noticing about myself: it's so much easier for me to step back and allow other people to emerge. I feel so much better for it.
It's magnificent to see how relationships are changing, because I don't feel like someone has to listen to something, or that I have to help someone. It's so much easier now.
Have you noticed things like that in your own life? Are you still trying to save someone? How has been the reaction?
In this now, I truly hope you're not trying to save people anymore, because while we do everything to support each other and have compassion for each other, people saving themselves, people doing it for themselves, spiritual beings, powerful beings doing it for themselves, is the way of the future.
What do you think? Let me know in the comments. Until next time, I love you guys. Bye.